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I’ve had The Talk with most of my friends and relatives.
Consequently, I receive very few gifts at Christmas. That makes me happy, knowing my loved ones are not wasting their money on stuff I don’t need.
But there’s always that one relative who insists on giving you gifts. How can you deal with them? They insist that Christmas ‘just wouldn’t be right’ without presents under the tree.
Here are some strategies you can take.
1. Suggest a consumable gift.
Hint that you’d love some chocolates. A nice bottle of wine. Some expensive fresh fruit or lovely locally-produced cheeses. Let them know than any of these options would be appreciated far more than socks, jocks or yet more hand cream!
2. Tickets to events can be a great idea.
Ask for tickets to an upcoming concert you’d enjoy. Or maybe suggest a nice meal out at a favourite restaurant with them paying for the meal.
3. Give to someone – or something – else.
Charities such as Oxfam give to those who are truly in need. It’s a great option for those who want to be generous.
4. Accept the inevitable and re-gift what they give you.
Homeless shelters and food banks are pleased to receive unwanted toiletries, clothing and other items. Ring before you drop them off, to ensure that the right item is going to the right place.
5. Sell the item, and use the proceeds for something useful.
If re-gifting makes you feel guilty, spend the money on a worthwhile charity, and convert an unwanted gift into much-needed assistance. I find that giving to worthwhile charities always eases any guilt I have!
Is it too early to wish everyone Merry Christmas yet? 🙂